are you gonna beat your kids?

33 replies · 6253 views · Started by Hahaha · May 2005
Hahaha Greensboro, NC
lol u r never anything less than a riot to me :lol:
demmeri wrote:
but i dunno if they do something major, stealing, lying, disrepecting me or their mother (stacy dash...or chick that can do a split...or white girl)...they're gonna get it...
*smh* as for everything else you said.... I definitely do agree that physical discipline HAS to exist in the home.....not physical abuse....physical discipline.... Because like you said, we've seen what lack thereof....has done for the children of today....not good....not good at all... And particularly for the generations that are yet to be....they gonna be some lil' BAD @$$es (even worse than be4), we all know this.....unless we rear them like most of us were reared.... However... I don't agree with what you said about you being the only disciplinarian.... I've known many people who were disciplined physically by either both parents...or just their mothers....and they ended up coming out just fine.... I can't remember where I heard this....but there was a mother who allowed that to happen in her home....like, the whole time her children were growing up, she always let the father get 'em when he'd get home.....and somewhere along the line, she felt she was no longer respected by the children....'cause they thought they could get away with a whole lot more around mama....and knew BETTER, when it came to daddy..... She felt they didn't have for her that same respect for a parent that a child is supposed to have....that they had for their father... And I'm not havin' that.... Knowing me, it'll probably be hard to physically discipline my children, lol...but....I know you gotta do what you gotta do.....and okay, maybe my husband can be the primary disciplinarian....hmmm, I don't know....but I want to receive the same respect from them as he receives.... and finally, i'm gonna REALLY need for you to STOP BLAMING EVERY DAMN THING ON ****!! i've refrained from saying this, but damn HALF the stuff you say aren't even because of ****...they're because of your little conservative buddies....or both.... you're hilarious....
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Poody · May 2005
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yeah i'mma whoop my kids I just know it. they gonna get beat wit a switch and a belt just like me, oooh I can't wait. They gonna go get the switch and the belt too.
· May 2005
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^^Well damn... I ain't even get to read what you said.... that damn siggy was distracting me. ****. *thumbs up* @ the Eva picture :-D That convo is funny as hell too :lol:
· May 2005
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Poody wrote:
yeah i'mma whoop my kids I just know it. they gonna get beat wit a switch and a belt just like me, oooh I can't wait. They gonna go get the switch and the belt too.
:lol: You anxious ta beat some tail.
Poody · May 2005
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you know what though, punishments and whooping still don't matter. When I was little it taught me what was wrong and sh!t but I still did what I wanted to do. I just tried to think of ways to not get caught so I wouldn't get the whoopin or punishment. So whether or not kids get punished they still gonna do what they want. Sometimes I'd go ahead and do it cuz i'd think it was worth the punishment
La · May 2005
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Poody wrote:
Sometimes I'd go ahead and do it cuz i'd think it was worth the punishment
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Lady Invictus · May 2005
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Lawd knows where i'd be if I hadn't have been spanked NOT BEAT. I will spank my children when it is needed. If I have to tell you something more than once you are gonna get it. I should be able to look at you and you stop, but if your little **** gets uppity imma whip you period. But I will always let my child know I love them and i'm doing this so that no one else who doesn't love or care about you will. I know my mom did what she did out of love b/c sometimes she cried when she did it. Being older know the fear of her keeps me from doing a lot of dumb shyt.
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· May 2005
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I WILL NOT beat my children, but i will discipline them and use hitting ONLY as a last resort when necessary. My father took the initiative to beat me and my brothers. Not spank, but beat-but he would beat me differently, cuz my brother got hit with a 4x4, and my other bro he broke a ruler and a video cassete on him-and he was only 1. Spanking to me, well in my case, did more harm than good. We was always scared of my father-and now because of that-I have no good relationship w/ him whatsover.I think Parents need to take discipline into consideration and really use spanking when necessary.
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Poody · May 2005
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MsDee07 wrote:
I WILL NOT beat my children, but i will discipline them and use hitting ONLY as a last resort when necessary. My father took the initiative to beat me and my brothers. Not spank, but beat-but he would beat me differently, cuz my brother got hit with a 4x4, and my other bro he broke a ruler and a video cassete on him-and he was only 1. Spanking to me, well in my case, did more harm than good. We was always scared of my father-and now because of that-I have no good relationship w/ him whatsover.I think Parents need to take discipline into consideration and really use spanking when necessary.
well damn
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CHiladelphia · May 2005
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i'd smack them around a bit, i wouldnt beat them tho
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Poody · May 2005
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beat is such a harsh word
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