Being honest....who's fault is it that you are single?

All_Hail_She wrote:

Well in my situatution, I'm always bumping into guys that think of me as a lil sis, then those cheesy guys that say i'm their friend then they try to smash, or those guys who want me to be the "other" woman. Basically it's a mess. Especially on my campus, to find a girl that hasn't been completed smutted out is a rarity. Then again I do talk a lot of Sh*t, I'm a self proclaimed ball buster( always taliking Sh*t on a dude) Plus I've notice with some guys, and even with my guy friends it seems like a dark skin is good enough to sleep with but not good enough to take home to mama. Plus the guy I want is in lamest terms "taken" So I'm on my chill.

R-Tistic wrote:

I know that we have all heard females everywhere complain, or "give reasons" for the fact that they are single. The common theme that I find, especially in college, is that most of the females who have excuses/reasons for being single usually blame the men that they have met and have been surrounded by for the fact that they are single. Most of them will never admit their downfalls, and always have a reason for anything somebody may use to knock them. So my question to you all...could you honestly admit that there may be some reasons to why you are single? Whether it's your personality, looks, or anything else you feel could be wrong with you, but WITHOUT flippin the script. Meaning..."I admit it's because I'm usually not in a good mood....but I'm only like that because the dudes make me mad all the time" is not a valid reason.

R-Tistic wrote:

TJC wrote:

i'm unattractive to men. you have to be **** to get their attention. oh and you have to be real thick too. or they won't like you. that honest enough for ya?

Nah, that was actually kinda weak. If YOU in particular have to be **** to get their attention then there must be somethin wrong with you. That was a helluva generalization you made and it's definitely not accurate. If a female is "****" or dressd with nothin coverin her, dudes will only be on her and tryin to holla at her because they wanna f***, not because they wanna get with her. On the flip side, dudes will only wanna holler at a girl as in gettin with her if she's dressed respectable, because most of us don't want a female who shows everything she got.

Thoroughly_Confused wrote:

I just gave up