I have a Question for the Ladies

if you're out and about and you see a gentleman you like would you go up to him and start talkin to him? or are you the type to let the men come up to you?

I am To be pursued Iam not the one to pursue, I know that may sound conceited but hey......its real talk. :grin:

I have never went up to a guy for myself, if a friend of mine likes a guy and can't muster up the strength to talk to him, i do it for her, because hey, i don't want to talk to him, I've done that so many times. But i can't seem to do it for myself, i don't think i am confident in myself to do so. I would love to have that additude where i don't care all the time but i don't. So usually guys approach me.. BTW; P.R. Model! its so nice to see another Afro-Latina on the board!

Hey Daya!! Thanks :-D

I believe that men should make the first move. Now that being said I won't go up and ask a guy for his number but I will flirt to make it obivous that I'm open to giving him my number. From that point on it's up to him, but that has come back to haunt I have heard a lot that "I really like you but since you didn't make a move I didn't think you were intrested" but I still like going by what I said.