Now of days its seems to be more and more females are going after just money. I understand people want the best,but I am wondering why it seems like a straight obsession for some females. I have never dealt with it first hand,but have watched friends have those problems with females and at one point I thought it was just a sterotype until I heard alot of their stories and it wasn't just the girls they dealt with,but some of my female friends are like that. WHY? It kind of brings up trust issuses like whether or not the female will be down with you during the down times. And, it causes me not to holla at certain females and then I get labeled as being stuck up!!! thats not the truth.
There nothing wrong with a female wanting to look nice and presentable..I wouldnt want my girl looking like one of my boys..stop being insecure and step you game up..you are what you attract.
I have been dating my current man for 3 years now. I knew that he had money all along. Me and him have an understanding that you don't need money to be happy in a relationship. All the happiness comes from you loving each other and being there for each other. Sometimes when you're in a relationship you and that person needs to talk about what they want out of the relationship before it goes to far. Because I know sometimes if you don't you will be stuck with that gold digger. There have been times when I had to tell him not to buy me things. It wasn't because I didn't appreciate it. It's just that I don't need a lot of material things to satisfy. I just want unconditional love. But, there are just some shallow girls that are like that, and those are the girls that are not happy at all. They're seeking fulfillment in things that can't give them fulfillment. Hopefully one day you will find a girl that wants to be with you for who you are, not for what you have.
Carmelsun, great post! Looks like the Harrel and 1Life back that and even added some insight. I agree with you guys. A young lady who carries herself as such, should be treated as such. Carmelsun didn't leave the luxuries of mom and dad to get with a brotha that can't afford to take her out to dinner. We're not talking about pay my telephone bill kinda maintanence right?? So I agree.
my philosophy on that is that if i can't get it myself, why would i ask someone else to get it for me, the least bit a guy......i dont like to rely on others for my well being, i rather do it myself.....i have been taught that a girl who is willing for money might as well sell her soul or flush down her morals!
