Why is it so hard for guys to open up to they girl?
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Started by Ieschia
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Jul 2003
Well ma I can only speak for me and maybe those that'll relate to my comments, I dont have a problem opening up to my woman, cause I'm an open person and I'm very expressive when it comes to my feelings, BUT with that said I'm more cautious now than I was before based on the fact I've been that open and have gotten hurt numerous times for that reason. Men dont really open up because they wanna seem weak or by society's standards as not as manly cause they open up. I dont care about all that I open up to people I have a comfort level with. Another thing, if he not opening up to YOU, maybe it's cause you're not his main girl
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CamDeezy wrote:Well, guys don't really open up to their girls totally because it is seen as a sign of weakness. Regardless of how girls wanna say, "yeah, I want him to open up to me totally. I want him to be sensitive," that just will not work. A girl will end up growing apart from a guy, especially if she knows all of his business. He loses that mysterious persona, thus losing part of the girl's attraction to him. I'm not saying don't open up. You can show some feelings. But a guy that opens up totally to a girl will lose that girl eventually.
