does it matter?

31 replies · 16270 views · Started by giniacuty_757 · Mar 2006

today my sister and I went to go get matchin Capricorn tattoos and the we were over her friends Johnelle house and she was braiding this guyz hair n all and all of a sudden he told her even though you pretty I would never date a "darksin female thats just my preference" she looked confused and then he told my sister he would fucc the ****outta of her "I loove them RED BONEZ" and his friend who was over there wit him agreed dapping him up and shyt. my sister although she light skinned wasnt going along with them she said Nellie's pretty though and the guy Tashawn was like "she too dark for me where I come from in New orleans the best of the best be them Red Bonez Shawty u digg" Then I was like thats messed up Im not darskin either but I feel that was messed up Cuz I know maaad fellas that date all types of black females I personally neva been through no guy tellin me cuz im not dark or light enuff blah thats crazy to me darkskin, brownskin, cinnamon,caramel, whatever it shouldnt matter to you if u feelin her But does it matter really? Im just curious do a lot of guyz feel this way?

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Playzonlyliveonce · Sep 2006

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this might be wrong but fcuk it ....If i ever decide to make one of yall my "girlfriend" she'll be darkskinned it's hard to find that beautiful bone structure, intelligent, smooth skin, always smell good, long hair, woman let alone in dark skin. I know I know it sounds ignorant but fkuc it.

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theTRUTH · Sep 2006

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Serpent King wrote:
^^^...Everybody is entitled to their preference. Its when you start saying that one is better than the other is when you have the problem.

I agree. Why is it that people can say they prefer tall, skinny, short, thick, etc. with no problem. But as soon as someone says they prefer light skin, people jump out of their skin. A preference is a preference.

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Carmelsun from Syracuse, NY · Nov 2006

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theTRUTH wrote: I agree. Why is it that people can say they prefer tall, skinny, short, thick, etc. with no problem. But as soon as someone says they prefer light skin, people jump out of their skin. A preference is a preference ____________________________________________________________ I agree partially with what you said. Skin color is more personal in the fact that black people have been treated terrible because of the color of their skin. Tall and skinny people were not beat up, ****, and hung like people of color. A preference is a preference, but it's all in the way you say things. I prefer to date dark men, because I think that they are gorgeous, but I have only dated one, the rest I have dated are yellow. I like tall guys, but I have dated short ones. I love vanilla ice cream, but I do eat chocalate. But to say you won't date someone because of the color of their skin is ignorant and stupid.

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giniacuty_757 · Dec 2006

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yeah like at achool even in college we discussing sororities and stuff and the girl Shara was like I see you being a AKA not a ZETA im jsut being true" I was like whatever color is color and I dont tihnk black folks can help their color i dont know if I wasnt half Dominican I might be darker night not be u dont know u cant help ya complexion not if u not white not white folks can help it and I agree Caramelsun with the light skin things girl told me the only reason niggazz be up on you forreal cuz u cute and light and thats what they lie" HOW ignorant can you be maybe Im a cool female why it gotta be my hair or my color gosh its stupid I like guys in all colors PERFER MY BROTHAZ tho but Im saying dark or light as long as she a good female i dont think fellaz should mind forreal but like u said Caramel people do get angry when guys say or pick out lighter skin over darker m like I cant help my genes or my race ask my mother and papi on that one cuz I dont know thats stupid color SHOULD NOT MATTER!!

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R-Tistic from Los Angeles, CA · Jan 2007

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I could really care less...but I do seem to love chocolate and brown skinned females. I'll never be on some "she's cute for a light/dark skinned girl" because it doesn't matter. At the same time....I realize that I have only talked to brown skinned and dark skinned girls for most of my life, because it's only been a few light skinned girls who were attracted to me. When I was 20, this 18 year old turned me down for my 15 year old homeboy because "she didn't care much for dark skinned guys" and my homeboy was hella yella.

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R-Tistic from Los Angeles, CA · Jan 2007

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Carmelsun wrote:
theTRUTH wrote: I agree. Why is it that people can say they prefer tall, skinny, short, thick, etc. with no problem. But as soon as someone says they prefer light skin, people jump out of their skin. A preference is a preference ____________________________________________________________ I agree partially with what you said. Skin color is more personal in the fact that black people have been treated terrible because of the color of their skin. Tall and skinny people were not beat up, ****, and hung like people of color. A preference is a preference, but it's all in the way you say things. I prefer to date dark men, because I think that they are gorgeous, but I have only dated one, the rest I have dated are yellow. I like tall guys, but I have dated short ones. I love vanilla ice cream, but I do eat chocalate. But to say you won't date someone because of the color of their skin is ignorant and stupid.

Yeah it's all to do with history, and the fact that most of us are brainwashed in liking one complexion over another. It's obvious that it has to do with conditioning, because I have not met many dudes in the south who'd say that they only date light skinned girls...but in California, I've heard a LOT of idiots say that they only like em light skinned, long hair, etc. etc. Colorism has been around forever, and most older people feel that for someone to dislike darker complexions shows how ignorant they are, and that it shows that they don't like where they came from.

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