youngest would be 21. and thats stretchin it! 22 is comfortable for me. 19-21 would be for only obvious reasons.
R-Tistic wrote: Wow...only females thinnk it's coo for a 16/17 year old to date a 25/26 year old.
i was 14 going with an 18 year old, (& thinkin i was special 'cause this dude had TOO many females on him age 14-19), but after we stopped talkin(i broke it off), i started wondering am i mature or is he immature..if he so cool why ain't he wit a woman his own age?(& he's doin nothin wit life now so.......well :lol: )...so four years is the biggest age gap i could consider. anything more than that and you two are going to be at different stages in your life
i'm 16 now. the reason females usually don't mind talking to older guys is, well,most 16-17year old guys are so emptyheaded. So i would talk to someone up to a college sophomore. thats what, 19, 20?
if u been legally drinking longer than i've been driving...........U GETS NO NUMBER!!
oh, & the dude i was talking to WASN'T tryna hit either, i just got it like that :twisted:
AfroPoeticSista wrote:
i'm 16 now. the reason females usually don't mind talking to older guys is, well,most 16-17year old guys are so emptyheaded. So i would talk to someone up to a college sophomore. thats what, 19, 20?
oh, & the dude i was talking to WASN'T tryna hit either, i just got it like that :twisted:
eww girl that's just nasssssty :lol:
all i gotta tell you is, "Damn, girl. You're amazing. I've never met someone like you. You're so young, but you're just....THERE! mind body and soul, you're everything i wanted in a woman...you're wife material and i think im in love with you."
BAM!!!! Pannies flyin everywhere. :? I mean, Im not tryin to mess up my R.Kelly imitators out there, i just want these girls to realize that just cause you date them dudes mad older, you cant expect them to be mature :lol: you just got a Datsun rather than a Nissan. Same thing, only older :lol:
AcgieLegend wrote:
all i gotta tell you is, "Damn, girl. You're amazing. I've never met someone like you. You're so young, but you're just....THERE! mind body and soul, you're everything i wanted in a woman...you're wife material and i think im in love with you."
BAM!!!! Pannies flyin everywhere. :? I mean, Im not tryin to mess up my R.Kelly imitators out there, i just want these girls to realize that just cause you date them dudes mad older, you cant expect them to be mature :lol: you just got a Datsun rather than a Nissan. Same thing, only older :lol:
:lol: u silly. Nah, if u told me that stuff u just said up there^^^^, I would wonder why you were talking to me instead of a strong black woman at your college, and think that you were lame...I don't know i guess its a catch 22. I would talk to an older guy because there would be more to talk about, but then i would wonder y ain't he talking to someone his age. So i guess i want a mature guy
my age, but they are few and far between(hence y i am single now). & NO my goodies stay in the jar, repping the V-Club until i get a TRILION diamond on the 4th finger of my left hand :lol: (if u ain't seen a Trilion, u haven't seen a real diamond)
R-Tistic wrote: Wow...only females thinnk it's coo for a 16/17 year old to date a 25/26 year old.
I am 19 and I won't say I would never date a girl younger than 18, but most likely, I wouldn't. When I am 25-26, it's no damn reason in the world that I would even want to talk to a 16-17 year old, or even a 19-20 year old if I am at the level that I hope to be at. Females may be more mature than dudes in general, but when it is that big of an age gap at this crucial age where we are all going through major changes, then it is a big difference.
Personally, I don't see anything wrong wit an age gap like that...my godbrother was gonna kick my **** because he found out I was talkin to a 25 yr old(I'm 18) I don't see whaz wrong wit it and why guys think it's wrong for females to talk to talk to older men...guys talk to older women...someone please explain this double standard to me!