To ALL greeks...Question about "discretion"...

Hi Everyone, This is my first time posting something on HBCU-Connect, I am somewhat of a "lurker" LOL! But anyway, I had a question/comment that has really been burning in my mind since I started school at FAMU in the fall...Why is there such thing as "legacy" because most times when your parent is in a BGLO they sort of "breed" you to become a member, and that makes it REALLY hard for kids when they start college because they are not supposed to act like they are interested in ANYTHING as apart of the whole "discretion" thing. That is why I sorta wish I wasn't exposed at such a young age because it seems so backwards... parents instill things in your mind from when u r 1, put "future XYZ" shirts on you at 5, put u in fashionetta in middle school, keep u in the "teen" program all throughout high school and then u are a debutante your senior year, THEN to top it all off u get a scholarship sponsered by XYZ, and THEN ALL OF SUDDEN u are supposed to forget everything and act stupid like you don't know what u want to be. I really don't UNDERSTAND that! CAN SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLAIN IT TO ME!!

groupies they love me i think the greeks here are embrassed because everyone here has been hazed i wanna see sorority hazing pics u know they do sick sh!t like make em swim in a lake and stuff