Real Talk...listen up ladies! (A black's reason for cheating)
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Started by Nyla
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Dec 2007
Hello All,
I know this may sound a little redundant but, I was having a conversation with a male friend of mine and I wanted to know from a man's perspective "why do men cheat." Whoa, did he give me an earful ladies..lol. Anyway read the conversation below and feel free to share your feelings, opinions, etc. on this subject.
Nyla:
I need some real talk right now. I'm so tired of men (black especially) saying how they want a good woman who's smart, funny, attractive, self driven,
have a career, freaky, and the whole nine and then when they get them you all don't know how to handle them. Some even become intimidated. What is really up with all that. Why do men cheat? why would a man have sugar at home but, go out in the streets and start messing with ish? Explain this for me please.
Male:
The only simple way I can put it is that it is nature. A man will be a man first, my example I always use is even the Fine Halle Berry, couldnt keep here men from going astray, and she is mostly every mans dream......And for most men it is all about the hunt, and after the actual ****, it is boring, and they are out to hunt once more. It is not rocket science, just know that it is nothing that the women does, it is just what we do, no matter how great the woman is, there is always another woman on the radar.
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smc112 wrote:It's amazing how your perception changes as you get older, I guess that is what people do when they are in Jr. High or High School. Yeah, I remember those days when we used to talk about a chick who couldn't dress. LOL Those were the days!I'm just curious to what he's going to say about you after he breaks up with you. That will be interesting.


I'm just curious to what he's going to say about you after he breaks up with you. That will be interesting.
First of all, it was a scenario, hypothetically speaking. Secondly, the originator of this comment is a WOMAN!