I am engaged

BigDaddy Tres wrote:

...I'd speak words of happiness and contentment for you, however I have none. Obviously alot must of went through your mind to marry this man, and I cant question your feelings... I can say that you dont marry someone just because you love them. Thats how 50% of marriages f*ck up (and I bet you 100% of them started out thinkin theyd be together forever...at least one of them did). I assume you have a job, a house, a steady income and arent living or dependent on your parents. Im also going to assume that his apparent...incarceration will not make him a sit-in boyfriend. How long do you think you can love a man who's skill lay in the crevace of the couch you bought? Even if you have this all figured out; Is your soul right? Are you a woman of God and is he a Man of God? Because if you arent, then both of you will go into a marriage with unreasonable expectations. Research what your place is in a marriage that is acknowledged by the Highest and see what is expected of you as a wife and of him as a husband. At least youll have guidelines. (and yall can hate me for this, but if she has no doubts then I havent shaken her spirit at all.) *leaves* :arrow:

mickeys back wrote:

I cant never come on here with any one saying something negitive to me about something. I am happy, I am in a good place right now in my life and I think I will be ok So damn...... But thank you to all who congradulated me ......Thank you so much!