DATING WHITE PEOPLE!!

79 replies · 45073 views · Started by chrittypie · Jun 2004

chrittypie

WHAT DO YA'LL THINK ABOUT DATING PEOPLE WHO ARE WHITE? DO YOU THINK ITS A COP OUT FOR SISTAHS WHO CAN'T FIND A GOOD BLACK MAN OR DO U THINK ITS A WAY FOR BRUHS TO GET SOME GOOD HEAD (BASED ON MYTHS ABOUT WHITE GIRLS). I WANNA KNOW B/C I SEE MORE BRUHS TURNIN TO WHITE GIRLS EVEN AT HBCUs. TELL ME WHATS GOOD

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Wisdom_Tree from Texas City, TX · Jul 2004

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DreamGirl1908 wrote:
^^^But you've admitted several times on here that you are a Becky lover. And why would you think we would have a problem with it??? Don't tell me you're one of them negroes that get a kick of seeing others "mad" ((LOL all in your mind)) because you're with a white girl! :lol: If that's the case YOU need to grow up :wink: :arrow:

*looks up from the cookie at you* Id be angered by the complete sh*t you just said about me being a "Becky-Lover" which seems to echo the White Mans verson of N*gger Lover (so in a sense youre putting a bad taste in my mouth for echoing a thought process created by the "Man"), but if I started giving a sh*t what you said then Id actually sit down and debate what you just said. However, Let me clarify myself before I go on. I wont tell you that Im one of those men who loves to see someone else angered by my own personal choices. I find it slightly amusing that anyone would give a sh*t about what I do in my own life - I make my own decisions because my father said I was a man. At that point what you say about my own psyche and the processes it goes through becomes null and void. To me. I dont take kindly to growing up jokes. Ive been called a child too many times to understand how much growing I have to do on my f*cking own. I think subconsciously every black person that saw me kissing on my ex was hurt that I wasnt with my "own kind". They can keep that mentality and let an **** assassin make due with their colons until their sphinctre doesnt work properly. If my happiness ever depended on another person smiling down on what I do, I would **** My Self. "So f*ck you, have a nice day" - 8 Mile. (no offense yourself :wink: :arrow: )

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A'Kaye47 from Dover, DE · Jul 2004

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BigDaddy Tres wrote:
DreamGirl1908 wrote:
^^^But you've admitted several times on here that you are a Becky lover. And why would you think we would have a problem with it??? Don't tell me you're one of them negroes that get a kick of seeing others "mad" ((LOL all in your mind)) because you're with a white girl! :lol: If that's the case YOU need to grow up :wink: :arrow:
*looks up from the cookie at you* Id be angered by the complete sh*t you just said about me being a "Becky-Lover" which seems to echo the White Mans verson of N*gger Lover (so in a sense youre putting a bad taste in my mouth for echoing a thought process created by the "Man"), but if I started giving a sh*t what you said then Id actually sit down and debate what you just said. However, Let me clarify myself before I go on. I wont tell you that Im one of those men who loves to see someone else angered by my own personal choices. I find it slightly amusing that anyone would give a sh*t about what I do in my own life - I make my own decisions because my father said I was a man. At that point what you say about my own psyche and the processes it goes through becomes null and void. To me. I dont take kindly to growing up jokes. Ive been called a child too many times to understand how much growing I have to do on my f*cking own. I think subconsciously every black person that saw me kissing on my ex was hurt that I wasnt with my "own kind". They can keep that mentality and let an **** assassin make due with their colons until their sphinctre doesnt work properly. If my happiness ever depended on another person smiling down on what I do, I would **** My Self. "So f*ck you, have a nice day" - 8 Mile. (no offense yourself :wink: :arrow: )

ooooh THIS is who u had to cuss out???...*shrugs* :arrow:

· Jul 2004

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The bottom line, my peope, is that if you allow yourself to succumb to feelings of jealousy and petty hatred, you will look like a complete idiot :lol: . You should be comfortable enough in your skin to look at two people who are in love and be happy for them... instead of thinking "HE SHOULD BURN IN HELL FOR RUNNING TO YT". On that same note, if you just happen to come across a black person who dates exclusively white people, you should be comfortable enough in your culture to know that that person is ignorant. By getting angry and flinging accusations, you only make yourself look either equally stupid or even more stupid.

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· Jul 2004

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BigDaddy Tres wrote:
I dont take kindly to growing up jokes. Ive been called a child too many times to understand how much growing I have to do on my f*cking own. I think subconsciously every black person that saw me kissing on my ex was hurt that I wasnt with my "own kind". They can keep that mentality and let an **** assassin make due with their colons until their sphinctre doesnt work properly. If my happiness ever depended on another person smiling down on what I do, I would **** My Self. "So f*ck you, have a nice day" - 8 Mile. (no offense yourself :wink: :arrow: )

Ooooh you sure told me :roll: You say you're not angry but I sense hella anger and hostility in that post, and if ya wasn't **** then why broadcast to the rest of the board that you have someone to cuss out?! :lol: HILARIOUS And his post is exactly what I am talking about my friends. *speaking to no one in general* So I guess the theory now-a-days is that if you're PRO-BLACK LOVE then you're automatically anti-IR? I see, I see. So what do we say about people with this mentality? Are they lost and confused or are they simply being 'politically correct'? I had a friend tell me once that I was racist because I will only date black men. :lol: It is amazing what being "politically correct" can do to people's minds! Black people we THE most accepting race on the planet, so why on earth are there people, most of them our OWN people, who think we are ALL against IRs? And for the record, I don't take too kindly to people doing my thinking for me. I think it's funny yet sad all in the same when people, particularly BLACK MEN, have this perception that people are angry or "hurt"(be it openly or "subconsciously" ) when they are seen with someone of another race. Gimme a friggin break :lol: I was at Magic Mtn this weekend and I swear every other black woman there was with a man of another race. Did I care? Nope! Wasn't none of my damn business to bring myself to care. Whenever I see a black man with a woman of another race do I get upset or "hurt"? Well the real question is, does every black man belong to me? Hell naw! Therefore, why would I give a rat's **** about who another brotha is with if he aint my man? I think there are MANY sistas who feel me on this, but there seems to be this perception that we get "mad" when we see a BM with a woman of another race. Again, if you think this way PLEASE GROW UP. Just because I would never personally date someone outside of my race does not mean I am against or spiteful towards those who do. Just like I would never personally bungee jump, it doesn't mean I am against or spiteful toward those who have the guts to do it! Tongue out

People please get a grip. I am and always will be FOR black love and the black family before anything else. Knock me and call me what you want, but being "politically/socially correct" is not important to me. If I am racist/wrong because I desire nothing but black men, then so be it. 8)

· Jul 2004

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Well, Dreamgirl... the statement you just made contradicted what you said before. Now, you are saying that IR dating does not matter to you and to each his own... but before, you were talking about "We have to preserve our race" and "The black population is dwindling!"... I would go back and quote you but I don't feel like it. If you weren't so strongly against other people dating outside their race, this would not be an issue right now. If you haven't noticed, other people have come through this thread stating that they don't date interacially... it is you who sounded like an extreme bigot, which is why you got jumped on. And to say that Tres is a "Becky lover" because he has had a white girlfriend is ignorant. Put yourself in other people's shoes. If you ever fell in love with a white person, would you like his friends to call him a "LaKiesha lover"? I think not. Think about what you say before you say it. Earlier I stated that this is the process of regression. As long as you keep creating a deeper and longer bridge between cultures (notice I said cultures, not ethnicities), we will never progress. Not as a race, not as a people. It is very okay if you do not date outside your race... that is understandable. But, please, do not point fingers and judge... it makes you look ignorant, and most of all bitter... that is why Tres said that you seemed hurt. Don't take it out on him. So, basically my point is that you should stop being so prejudiced against things you know absolutely nothing about. And stop flinging accusations and judgements across the board... the same could be done to you. You have made some extreme black supremacist comments... think about the effect your words have on others. You take no consideration to the fact that not all white people are the same... that there ARE mixed people on this site like Rosie... you are making blind judgements. Okay, I'm done. *sigh*

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chrittypie · Jul 2004

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This is sad :cry: I never meant to start a race war

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· Jul 2004

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^No I would not be offended because my name IS Lakeisha :lol: Anyways Please go back and quote where I said I was strongly against IRs, I'm gonna need for you to do that in order for your point to be valid :wink: Again, those of you who are IN IR relationships are either misunderstanding me or putting words in my mouth. I'm gonna say this and be done with it: Just because I REFUSE to date anything but a black man does not make me against those who date outside of their race. I actually hooked a good sisterfriend of mine up with a white guy and they've been dating for over a year now. Would I do that myself? NO. Just because I wouldn't do it doesn't mean I'm gonna knock anyone who would :wink: and by me saying "preserve the race" I mean I will marry and mate with a black man and ONLY that, it was not meant to be any kind of "bigotry"; and for the record, I have no problems with Rosie or any other biracial people on this site, I don't know them personally and they had no say so in who they are just like I didn't have a choice to be black((but I LOVE it 8) )) That's that 'politically/socially correctness' I am talking about right there. Just because there are mixed people on this planet does NOT mean I am going to bite my tongue on my views, SORRY. I said it once and I'll say it one last time: Nothing will ever do for me but a black man; they are all I know and all I care to know Tongue out

Just like there are some people on here who see the beauty of IRs, I see the beauty in BLACK LOVE and that is all I desire for myself. I'll do me, yall do yallhowever you see fit: it's YOUR life 8)

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