why are u single???

69 replies · 14049 views · Started by MorehouseProdigy · Jul 2004
i was reading somebody's post i forgot where it was and they was tryin to justify why people are single, but i know its different reasons for different people. so if u single, why are u?? is it becuz u cant find someone to meet ur standards, u thinktoo young, or u jus want to be a playa?? whatever the case my be, put it here.
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SuperFly · Jul 2004
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Haven't found anyone worth my damn time... :roll:
Soundcheck 1898 · Jul 2004
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As for me I don't really know why... i guess its a culmination of things but i think the main reason is that I see no point in getting in relationship unless its gonna last a while and that future woman and her personality gels with mine... a friend of mine brought it up a while back but there are 5 attributes of attraction physical, spiritual, mental (the other two i can't remember but they made sense...) and unless she meets all 5 then i figure there is no point in pursuing anything... plus too many women can be crazy and i'm not down with the whole dude love thing so i'm assed out...
· Jul 2004
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Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
SuperFly · Jul 2004
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I've been single since I was in high school... :?
AggieWarrior · Jul 2004
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U Gotta Feel Me wrote:
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
that's true...
Kismet_TNT · Jul 2004
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U Gotta Feel Me wrote:
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
DOn't I know!
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Blutifully Human · Jul 2004
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U Gotta Feel Me wrote:
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
I feel u homie(no pun intended). But to be honest, i've been single all my life, and the only time i've really felt a void was when i was far from God. When it comes to me, if i'm not where i need to be spiritually, i'm gonna constantly yearn for attention/affection/admiration from a man...ANY man (and that's where the problem lies). The key is to have the RIGHT man. Since he hasn't come along yet, i'll just be chillin & doin the single thing, patiently awaiting my King.
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GaPeAcH · Jul 2004
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U Gotta Feel Me wrote:
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
i dont know if i have reach the point that there is a void in my life because when i am with someone i find myself getting nrevous and then i make up some dumb reason why i dont wanna be that person........i dunno sometimes i think i wanna be with someone steady but when guys approach want to be on that level with me i back away and then when i am single and no one is approaching me i feel lonely..........sorry yall im just rambling on and on right now i cant explin how i feel
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Blutifully Human · Jul 2004
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GaPeAcH wrote:
U Gotta Feel Me wrote:
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
i dont know if i have reach the point that there is a void in my life because when i am with someone i find myself getting nrevous and then i make up some dumb reason why i dont wanna be that person........i dunno sometimes i think i wanna be with someone steady but when guys approach want to be on that level with me i back away and then when i am single and no one is approaching me i feel lonely..........sorry yall im just rambling on and on right now i cant explin how i feel
sounds like u have a fear of commitment homie. That's ok tho. You're young. This is a good time to be single. Mature yourself & learn about YOU. Singlehood is a season to do u and work on yourself. Settle down when you are truly able to commit yourself to someone without questioning/doubting yourself, the person, or the relationship.
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In Rod We Trust · Jul 2004
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GaPeAcH wrote:
U Gotta Feel Me wrote:
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
i dont know if i have reach the point that there is a void in my life because when i am with someone i find myself getting nrevous and then i make up some dumb reason why i dont wanna be that person........i dunno sometimes i think i wanna be with someone steady but when guys approach want to be on that level with me i back away and then when i am single and no one is approaching me i feel lonely..........sorry yall im just rambling on and on right now i cant explin how i feel
Itz ok @ GaPeach cuz Im the same way... Except...I go through stages where i meet like 5 dudes in 1 week..and I'll talk to all of em..and I'll have my fav one that i wanna get with..playing the otha dudes..who by the way..are either cute..intelligent as hell..or jus wanna spend some quality time w/me without all the bullshyt... But anyways..I always pick the wrong one...who ends up being someone i shouldnt even waste my time with... I've never gone out and searched for someone..because thats when u find the WRONG one..I usually let the guys come to me...but i always push them away when its time to actually have a "relationship"...the whole part of getting a guy..flirting..is exciting to me...so i've never settled down... But now Im at a point when Im actually just going to open up to someone who i feel i can be in a serious relationship with..It wont be until aug when i get down to school..cuz i REFUSE to do long distance :roll:
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