Why do Ladies say, "I have more guy friends than girls'
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Started by KärolinaPläyboy
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Jul 2004
KärolinaPläyboy
charlotte, NC
I ALWAYS hear girls saying that they have more guy friends than girls. Everytime I hear it, I can't help but to think, (even 4 a split second) that she's giving it up to alot of guys,etc. Why do girls not have closer relationships with their own gender? more importantly, why do we want to know that you have more males in your life than females??
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For a long time I did not have any female friends because they can be so petty at times. A friend is suppose to be someone who uplifts when you need lifting and check you when your out of order. and sometimes with females it seems like their hatin or trying to knock you from excelling. It was when I went to college, that I tried to even bother with female friendships, and in most cases I had to brake tides. only a selected few are my homies, but most girls are just to damn catty. Furthermore, I was always looked at as the little sister so it was never a problem chllin with ****. I was raise with class, so I was not sleeping with all of them. Also, I never carried myself like a **** so I never had to worry about people thinking that I was sleeping with the whole crew. :wink:
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It is like this, I feel that it is nothing wrong with having more male friends than female if you choose to do that than that is your choice. Just because a person says they have more male friends than females does not mean they do not like talking to females as a whole it's just means they get along more. Like I said I personally have more male friends and I just get along with them more but I also have my circle of female friends too. In many cases though for what ever reason sometimes it is harder to talk to some females because in reality they do change up on you. All I know is every person is different and we experience different things and it doesn't mean that something is wrong with a person just because they choose to talk to guys more than girls.
I chose to hang out with guys because no matter how close you are to a female they still see you as competition. They don't seem to understand that I don't want they man, What they wearing is cool for them but I don't want to steal they style and that a friend that would gossip about them behind they back ain't a real friend. Guys kinda accept things at face value and keep movin'. I've never been with a group of guys and they start talkin' about some "nicca I can't stand yo fake self. you really think you fine or somethin'?" Guys be like "You wanna hang. A'ight that's cool." That stuff start from when you little. All the cliques and mess. Girls be like "You can't be my friend and her friend at the same time." Guys be tryin' to find more people so they can football or something. It's just less complicated with guys.
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HamptonBeauty_08 wrote:I... you can usually tell who's real and who's not after a couple of conversations. In my experiences, it's kind of hard to get hurt by a female...
