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64 replies · 27865 views · Started by jadekiss · Nov 2004
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I'm trying to figure this ****out, becuase me and my ex-boyfreind are going through some SHYT. Letme pop game to ya. Now lets say you have found that one girl that takes care of you, anything you needed she got you, she's always there when you need her, you love her, family loves her too...you know... Okay, so you're not ready for a relationship with her because, you don't know if you can competly turn away any temptation that comes you way. You wanna be free to see other people. Understandable. But because of the relationship you two have, you know she is always going to be there...so that when you are ready...you can pick up where you left off... :roll: ha...assumptions... Anyways... how do you make a person not take you for granted. How do you do this in a way that they know you will always be there for them...but not always be HERE for them..? Do I make any sense? Yeah...he's probably right with the I'll always be here...but I don't want him to KNOW that. I want to become challange again... Am I making good sense?
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In Rod We Trust · Nov 2004
#41 Reply
JadeKiss wrote:
xavierette wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
Aggie Highlander wrote:
I wonder if she's actually doing all this Sh*t... :roll:
::kick::: I told you personally that I am...its just hard....doodyhead # 2.
I have a question do u guys still say u love each other ??
Yes. I know it sound mushy..but I can't lie to the man when he says he loves me and asks me if I love him too...
damn Jade................... u need to take my secret class Jstblz99's lying to ur man 250.........................
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Kinkee · Nov 2004
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jstblz99-2h2h wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
xavierette wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
Aggie Highlander wrote:
I wonder if she's actually doing all this Sh*t... :roll:
::kick::: I told you personally that I am...its just hard....doodyhead # 2.
I have a question do u guys still say u love each other ??
Yes. I know it sound mushy..but I can't lie to the man when he says he loves me and asks me if I love him too...
damn Jade................... u need to take my secret class Jstblz99's lying to ur man 250......................... ****. Damn. :lol:
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jadekiss · Nov 2004
#43 Reply
(Miss Kee) wrote:
jstblz99-2h2h wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
xavierette wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
Aggie Highlander wrote:
I wonder if she's actually doing all this Sh*t... :roll:
::kick::: I told you personally that I am...its just hard....doodyhead # 2.
I have a question do u guys still say u love each other ??
Yes. I know it sound mushy..but I can't lie to the man when he says he loves me and asks me if I love him too...
damn Jade................... u need to take my secret class Jstblz99's lying to ur man 250.........................
****. Damn. :lol: Cosign :cry: :lol: You want me to lie? ::slumps her shoulders:: I guess I need the class then...damn
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Blutifully Human · Nov 2004
#44 Reply
JadeKiss wrote:
(Miss Kee) wrote:
jstblz99-2h2h wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
xavierette wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
Aggie Highlander wrote:
I wonder if she's actually doing all this Sh*t... :roll:
::kick::: I told you personally that I am...its just hard....doodyhead # 2.
I have a question do u guys still say u love each other ??
Yes. I know it sound mushy..but I can't lie to the man when he says he loves me and asks me if I love him too...
damn Jade................... u need to take my secret class Jstblz99's lying to ur man 250.........................
****. Damn. :lol: Cosign :cry: :lol: You want me to lie? ::slumps her shoulders:: I guess I need the class then...damn I don't think u necessarily need to lie to him, but don't tell him u are "in love" with him. Just make sure that u stress the fact that u love him because u guys have been thru so much, but that you've moved on. Don't give him the idea that "ooh, baby i love u. And i'll always be here for u"...aka...i'll be waiting and whenever you're "ready" i'll be here with open arms. Cuz he might just take advantage of that and string u up and down like a yo yo.
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Kinkee · Nov 2004
#45 Reply
*PURE*Kindnezz wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
(Miss Kee) wrote:
jstblz99-2h2h wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
xavierette wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
Aggie Highlander wrote:
I wonder if she's actually doing all this Sh*t... :roll:
::kick::: I told you personally that I am...its just hard....doodyhead # 2.
I have a question do u guys still say u love each other ??
Yes. I know it sound mushy..but I can't lie to the man when he says he loves me and asks me if I love him too...
damn Jade................... u need to take my secret class Jstblz99's lying to ur man 250.........................
****. Damn. :lol:
Cosign :cry: :lol: You want me to lie? ::slumps her shoulders:: I guess I need the class then...damn I don't think u necessarily need to lie to him, but don't tell him u are "in love" with him. Just make sure that u stress the fact that u love him because u guys have been thru so much, but that you've moved on. Don't give him the idea that "ooh, baby i love u. And i'll always be here for u"...aka...i'll be waiting and whenever you're "ready" i'll be here with open arms. Cuz he might just take advantage of that and string u up and down like a yo yo. I am with Kenya on this one.
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In Rod We Trust · Nov 2004
#46 Reply
(Miss Kee) wrote:
*PURE*Kindnezz wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
(Miss Kee) wrote:
jstblz99-2h2h wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
xavierette wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
Aggie Highlander wrote:
I wonder if she's actually doing all this Sh*t... :roll:
::kick::: I told you personally that I am...its just hard....doodyhead # 2.
I have a question do u guys still say u love each other ??
Yes. I know it sound mushy..but I can't lie to the man when he says he loves me and asks me if I love him too...
damn Jade................... u need to take my secret class Jstblz99's lying to ur man 250.........................
****. Damn. :lol:
Cosign :cry: :lol: You want me to lie? ::slumps her shoulders:: I guess I need the class then...damn I don't think u necessarily need to lie to him, but don't tell him u are "in love" with him. Just make sure that u stress the fact that u love him because u guys have been thru so much, but that you've moved on. Don't give him the idea that "ooh, baby i love u. And i'll always be here for u"...aka...i'll be waiting and whenever you're "ready" i'll be here with open arms. Cuz he might just take advantage of that and string u up and down like a yo yo. I am with Kenya on this one. ok ok ok................ JstBlz99's hiding ur feelings from your ex 099...............................
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· Nov 2004
#47 Reply
JadeKiss wrote:
xavierette wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
Aggie Highlander wrote:
I wonder if she's actually doing all this Sh*t... :roll:
::kick::: I told you personally that I am...its just hard....doodyhead # 2.
I have a question do u guys still say u love each other ??
Yes. I know it sound mushy..but I can't lie to the man when he says he loves me and asks me if I love him too...
Sigh.. * Myranda grabs Jade* U have to break free from the emotional ropes. I know its hard, but as long as he knows that you love u him he still has you. Its like he has the best of both worlds...He wants donnell jones it ( Yall know "WHere I wanna be), but he still wants to have u there as his net just case whats out there may not be all that great. From what i read in your previous post he broke up with you cause he wanted too see what else is out there. I believe that if you truly love a person as he says he loves you then he doesne't need anything else, becasue u are the one for him. I know most likely u will agree with what i have to say, but continue to be there and what not. Also Im just a scrrename in a sea of other screenames giving advice. But before i end let me as you a question. Are you you happy and do u feel appreciated with your position in your life ?
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SuperFly · Nov 2004
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Errrr... Jade... you do realize that if you lie, then you're only stooping to his level... :?
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Kinkee · Nov 2004
#49 Reply
jstblz99-2h2h wrote:
(Miss Kee) wrote:
*PURE*Kindnezz wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
(Miss Kee) wrote:
jstblz99-2h2h wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
xavierette wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
Aggie Highlander wrote:
I wonder if she's actually doing all this Sh*t... :roll:
::kick::: I told you personally that I am...its just hard....doodyhead # 2.
I have a question do u guys still say u love each other ??
Yes. I know it sound mushy..but I can't lie to the man when he says he loves me and asks me if I love him too...
damn Jade................... u need to take my secret class Jstblz99's lying to ur man 250.........................
****. Damn. :lol:
Cosign :cry: :lol: You want me to lie? ::slumps her shoulders:: I guess I need the class then...damn
I don't think u necessarily need to lie to him, but don't tell him u are "in love" with him. Just make sure that u stress the fact that u love him because u guys have been thru so much, but that you've moved on. Don't give him the idea that "ooh, baby i love u. And i'll always be here for u"...aka...i'll be waiting and whenever you're "ready" i'll be here with open arms. Cuz he might just take advantage of that and string u up and down like a yo yo. I am with Kenya on this one. ok ok ok................ JstBlz99's hiding ur feelings from your ex 099............................... I can help with this one too...... :arrow:
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jadekiss · Nov 2004
#50 Reply
xavierette wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
xavierette wrote:
JadeKiss wrote:
Aggie Highlander wrote:
I wonder if she's actually doing all this Sh*t... :roll:
::kick::: I told you personally that I am...its just hard....doodyhead # 2.
I have a question do u guys still say u love each other ??
Yes. I know it sound mushy..but I can't lie to the man when he says he loves me and asks me if I love him too...
Sigh.. * Myranda grabs Jade* U have to break free from the emotional ropes. I know its hard, but as long as he knows that you love u him he still has you. Its like he has the best of both worlds...He wants donnell jones it ( Yall know "WHere I wanna be), but he still wants to have u there as his net just case whats out there may not be all that great. From what i read in your previous post he broke up with you cause he wanted too see what else is out there. I believe that if you truly love a person as he says he loves you then he doesne't need anything else, becasue u are the one for him. I know most likely u will agree with what i have to say, but continue to be there and what not. Also Im just a scrrename in a sea of other screenames giving advice. But before i end let me as you a question. Are you you happy and do u feel appreciated with your position in your life ? Yes. I can say that without hesitation. Life **** sometimes...but its a **** so you just hafta to slap it sometimes.
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