CJ The Hustla wrote: Womanist wrote: CJ The Hustla wrote: Womanist wrote: :???: I don't understand how Megan is wrong in this situation. Maybe she is a little silly for remaining friends with the guy, but not wrong. The same goes with the other gal. The guy is the only one in the wrong. He is the one who cheated.
I just found it funny that u said the women arent to blame at all, but the man is the only one that's wrong, and u saying Megan is "silly" doesnt change the fact that I would expect that type of statement from someone who's name is "womanist"...mmkay.
shoot that **** before she shoot u
Y'all making it seem like Megan was the only girl that dude was talking to. He was messing around before he met her, hsoot, he prolly still messing around. If a girl was messing round on me for 13 years and I came up on here and posted bout it, most a y'all would call me a **** for staying wit ol girl. Y'all would laugh at me, etc., etc.
Point already been made that he trying to keep in contact wit her, and not the other way around.
Side note: Nisey are you saying that if you in a relationship wit a dude, he cannot call any other girls?
Aiight I'mma try this agian since I was typing earlier and my post got erased
I didn't read anything outside of what was on page 1 so forgive if I'm redundant but here is my 98 cents.
Basically, I think you are rushin to destruction and I think you need to stop talkin to ole boy. Not because of the girl calling you or any of that. Just for the simple fact that he keeps indicating the type of character that he possess but you look the other way and decide to still talk to him. Sooner or later it will come back to haunt you and please believe that this comes from somebody who knows from experience.
People who can cheat on a spouse repeatedly or just do them dirty particularly one that they have been with for a long time are not good friend material (male or female) and I'm sure you know this (its common sense). They may seem like that but sooner or later you'll realize that if you get too close they will do you just as grimey if not more than the person they are in a relationship with.
You already got screwed by him once, Why set youself up for a second time. Sure you could say that you aren't gonna get that close to dude or whatever so he'd be able to do so, but if thats the case why have him around in your life.
As for ole girl... the calling thing is her issue. If she can't trust her man enough to have female friends she needs to move on regardless of how long she's been with him because she'll miss out on something better staying with that sucka.
This is what people aren't getting. He calls me; I don't call him. When he calls, which is like every once in a while we just have conversations and that's it. And I don't know how I contradicted myself, when I'm not in an relationship with him.
When I said I leave after one time and let go, I mean if I am in a relationship and my boyfriend or whatever cheats on me, it only takes one time. That's why I didn't continue to "talk" him, in any other way but "friendship" after he lied to me. It's contradiction had I continue to "talk" to him in that way.
I can tell some of yall just read the thread name and the last sentence and really didn't read my post.
I'm getting heat cause dude calls me; not like I keep calling him. And we don't even talk all that often like we used to.
Sometimes, I'm too forgiving. I can hold a grudge like a mug, but will forgive at the same time. I don't know how that works out.
