LITE VS DARK

neosoul child wrote:

Its a matter of preference as my boy Slim has said. I think that a man is attractive no matter his complexion. I haven't found myself attracted to someone who is like blue-black, but are some out there. I have started to lean towards darker skinned people just because...no reason. I think its from the past when some of the light skinned/redbone boys turned me down because they said I was too dark. But other than that, if they look good enough to me then I'll holla. But the looks aren't the determining factor for me. If the dudes personality is good, and he has certain qualities that I like in a person, his complexion doesn't matter because all those good qualities make him attractive to me. Those type of people, though, become my friend first and then I end up liking them in the end. I don't find myself attracted to them as soon as I meet them.

Still Slim wrote:

neosoul child wrote:

Its a matter of preference as my boy Slim has said. I think that a man is attractive no matter his complexion. I haven't found myself attracted to someone who is like blue-black, but are some out there. I have started to lean towards darker skinned people just because...no reason. I think its from the past when some of the light skinned/redbone boys turned me down because they said I was too dark. But other than that, if they look good enough to me then I'll holla. But the looks aren't the determining factor for me. If the dudes personality is good, and he has certain qualities that I like in a person, his complexion doesn't matter because all those good qualities make him attractive to me. Those type of people, though, become my friend first and then I end up liking them in the end. I don't find myself attracted to them as soon as I meet them.

SMH... Everyone should realize that I am always right :roll: and i'd hook up w/ ya.... dont take it out on all of us red bones, now those yallers and darkies... SMH 8) :arrow:

natalie_g wrote:

I doesn't matter for me as long as you have a nice personality, can make me laugh, and not conceited it's all good. The thing between light vs. dark is a preference for some people and they are limiting themselves from some noteworthy people. Natalie

virtuous613 wrote:

it doesnt really matter to me b/c im not really stuck on the whole physical appearance but physically im attracted to a dark skin guys quicker than a light skinned guy but love is blind and i wouldnt not date someone b/c of their skin color~thats just ignorant.