why are u single???

69 replies · 14022 views · Started by MorehouseProdigy · Jul 2004

i was reading somebody's post i forgot where it was and they was tryin to justify why people are single, but i know its different reasons for different people. so if u single, why are u?? is it becuz u cant find someone to meet ur standards, u thinktoo young, or u jus want to be a playa?? whatever the case my be, put it here.

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· Jul 2004

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I'm too scared to go after what I want. When I gain more confidence then I'll be ready.

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Afro-American · Jul 2004

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lol now that im single i have a "void" in my life....learn something new all the time...i dont think its been a void more like one huge learning experience....just like any experience sometimes i enjoy it sometimes i dont...

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GaPeAcH · Jul 2004

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That Amazing Bytch wrote:
GaPeAcH wrote:
U Gotta Feel Me wrote:
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
i dont know if i have reach the point that there is a void in my life because when i am with someone i find myself getting nrevous and then i make up some dumb reason why i dont wanna be that person........i dunno sometimes i think i wanna be with someone steady but when guys approach want to be on that level with me i back away and then when i am single and no one is approaching me i feel lonely..........sorry yall im just rambling on and on right now i cant explin how i feel

Itz ok @ GaPeach cuz Im the same way... Except...I go through stages where i meet like 5 dudes in 1 week..and I'll talk to all of em..and I'll have my fav one that i wanna get with..playing the otha dudes..who by the way..are either cute..intelligent as hell..or jus wanna spend some quality time w/me without all the bullshyt... But anyways..I always pick the wrong one...who ends up being someone i shouldnt even waste my time with... I've never gone out and searched for someone..because thats when u find the WRONG one..I usually let the guys come to me...but i always push them away when its time to actually have a "relationship"...the whole part of getting a guy..flirting..is exciting to me...so i've never settled down... But now Im at a point when Im actually just going to open up to someone who i feel i can be in a serious relationship with..It wont be until aug when i get down to school..cuz i REFUSE to do long distance :roll:

good luck gurl.......i have accepted that right now i just need to be free, because if i am having this much trouble commiting/trusting myself with someone then its probably best i remain single.......but there is nothing wrong with being single and dating :wink: