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Hahaha · Mar 2005

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JoshDill wrote:
demmeri wrote:
D.t.s.Qt wrote:
How many of yall think when u get married the woman should cook for you?? n ladies how many of yall would cook for your man?? personally i think it should be 50-50 what yall think?
50 50.... after a dude comes home from work, he shouldn't just help with the food prep, he sould help with the kids n whatnot...he's got to remember that his wife's been there with the kids all dayum day....he ain't that dayum tired...

Why do you assume that the wife doesn't have a job of her own? Most women aren't housewives anymore...

· Mar 2005

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Yet you are obviously interested in girls that are in college now, right? So what, you expect them to work hard to earn a degree just so they can stay home and watch the kids? Lemme know how that one works out....

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Perseverance · Mar 2005

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I think it should be 50/50 also.

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· Mar 2005

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^^^ I agree with her....and I LOVE that car!!

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ClassyWisdom08 · Mar 2005

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JoshDill wrote:
Yet you are obviously interested in girls that are in college now, right? So what, you expect them to work hard to earn a degree just so they can stay home and watch the kids? Lemme know how that one works out....

Think about who you're talkig too...

ReSe from Winston-Salem, NC · Mar 2005

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Ever since i can remember the females in my family have ALWAYS catered to their men...especially when it comes to cooking....if my aunts boyfriend wants some cookies at 3am she is up making them...same with my mother..i guess since that was what i was taught at an early age...thats just how it is. the old fashion way. I couldn't picture my man or husband in the kitchen making anything..not even a sandwich..it just doesn't seem right to me :???: MEN DONT BELONG IN THE KITCHEN PERIOD..just like women don't belong in the driveway under the hood of the car 8-)

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ClassyWisdom08 · Mar 2005

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what!?!?! :x

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Hahaha · Mar 2005

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MissJazzyAKA wrote:
JoshDill wrote:
Yet you are obviously interested in girls that are in college now, right? So what, you expect them to work hard to earn a degree just so they can stay home and watch the kids? Lemme know how that one works out....
pfffffffffffffffffffffffft! :grin: ...

i'm not just interested in girls that are in college now...i mean yeah they can have a little jobby job or career or whatnot, but i don't want my girl to put her job in front of raising my kids... i don't like the idea of a "carrer" woman with like 4 kids....how in the hell do you balance that out??? it seems to me that these career women stress themselves out by trying to be the perfect mom and the perfect boss...like they're trying to prove something to the world...we already know that "girl's can do it too" and we really don't care!!!! who's gonna watch my baby? who's gonna raise my baby dammit??? i don't want my kids to be daycare raised...i want a nice conservative woman who is confident in herself to actually play the woman tradition (that's right dammit! this is the tradtional woman role! dayum **** have yall thinking there is something wrong with this..) taking care of the house and the kids... i understand she might want to have a little carreer or whatnot, but i don't want it to interfere with all her ...um...motherly duties or whatnot? i nderstand that it takes 2 incomes to get by in todays world, but i plan to have a salary that pays well enough to make it so that she doen't have to work...