I pretty much agree with PowerofWoman and AKA on this issue, but I understand what the dudes are saying, I dont completely agree with it, but some things I do. I think regardless of how a person acts or dresses we should all have a GENERAL RESPECT for everyone. Do I think I should get the same level of respect that a " ho " gets. No I dont...I think peoples level of respect for me should be much higher than that of a loose female. But because she is loose and doesnt respect herself, it doesnt mean it gives anyone else the right to disrespect her. A perfect example was yesterday afternoon. The local radio station hosted a pool party at my apt complex, and they had a **** shakin contest and the winner gets $250...well they kept uppin the ante to see how far the girls would go for some money and attention. Well by the time all was said and done, this one girl who is a FAMU student **** shaked **** **** **** for $600 in front of everybody. Of course everyone had something to say about it, including myself. Clearly if you are going to act as a ho, people gonna treat you like a ho? Is it fair? No. Is it a double standard? Yes, but thas life. UNFORTUNATELY...they exist...if you dont respect yourself no one else will. Ima be real...the girl that danced **** for $600...I respect her as another person, but I dont repect her in the sense of being a " lady " because a " lady " wouldnt act in that manner... People can only judge you on what you put out there...but like I said...because she may be loose or a ho...I dont think it gives any man or woman to treat her less than a person. Hell I may agree that she a ho with some dudes, but I dont think it gives any dude the right to be outright disrespectful to her and call her out her name to her face, and etc...But the way I feel...like PowerofWoman said, regardless of how a female carries herself...even if she is the most non classiest female out there...a real man still wouldnt disrespect her or treat her like a ho, because thats not a how real man would operate. He would have respect for her just cause she is a woman, but not the same respect he would have for a LADY....hopefully that made sense.
MissJazzyAKA wrote: umm okay :???: just roll with the bunches
Of grapes?
MissJazzyAKA wrote: But anyway, treat people how you want to be treated.
That's the Golden Rule.
MissJazzyAKA wrote: I've made several valid points in this thread.
Who else in this thread would say that they haven't as well?