demmeri wrote: if a woman dresses like a hoe she deserves to be treated like a ho...i ain't sayuing go out of your way to mistreat her, but if she gets treated like one, she and no one else should be surprised...
smh@yall woman acting like we have to repeect all yall ****...if you don't deserve it, you ain't gonna get it...the same for guys... 8-) (nessa)
and who exactly are you to determine who deserves respect and who doesn't?
I thought actions are what determines and not appearance??! :???: So, how would you know whether that person deserves respect or not. It's funny because most of you have mothers and sisters and if they dressed like "hoes" you wouldn't be saying those things.
MissJazzyAKA wrote: I thought actions are what determines and not appearance??! :???: So, how would you know whether that person deserves respect or not. It's funny because most of you have mothers and sisters and if they dressed like "hoes" you wouldn't be saying those things.
but just like whats his face said...if a dude were to go to a job interview at microsoft or any big name company and he had his pants sagging down, a white tee down past his knees, with jewelry all over and gold teeth, do oyu actually think they are gonna treat him the same way as say a person sittin next to him ini a business suit??NO...hey he might be a great person and all, smart and whatnot, but hes not gonna get treated like it at first glance...it might not be right to judge like this but thats the way it works..same for one of those girls in the pictures...THE FACT IS PEOPLE JUDGE BY WHAT THEY SEE FIRST....people cant help it...why do you think people are always tryna look nice to go places, esp when people go to those fancy restaurants....think aobut it...you cant judge some random person that you see in the mall or wherever you may be at by their "personality" or "their action" because you dont have time to go over to the person and be like "hey how ya doin??i wanna get to know you because when i first saw you, i thought you might be a hoe, so can i jus follow you around and see how you act so maybe this perception can change?"...and if you say that youve never judged a person by appearance in oyur whole life youre not bein honest with yourself.....
if a woman dresses like a hoe she deserves to be treated like a ho...i ain't sayuing go out of your way to mistreat her, but if she gets treated like one, she and no one else should be surprised...
smh@yall woman acting like we have to repeect all yall ****...if you don't deserve it, you ain't gonna get it...the same for guys... 8-) (nessa)
MissJazzyAKA wrote: I thought actions are what determines and not appearance??! :???: So, how would you know whether that person deserves respect or not. It's funny because most of you have mothers and sisters and if they dressed like "hoes" you wouldn't be saying those things.
I call "bullshyt". Pick em up Jazzy.
And I know that if my sister dressed like that I'd tell her she is dressing like a hoe to her face. I ain't letting my sister go out dressing like THAT anywhere if I'm around, and I know that a lot of the fellas here wouldn't let them either.
This thread is really proving the double standard which women always accuse men of having, which in reality, is the exact opposite. Women are the ones holding the major double standards, which I've known to be the case all along. I'm glad this convo is going on.
