BigDaddy Tres wrote: ...I'd speak words of happiness and contentment for you, however I have none. Obviously alot must of went through your mind to marry this man, and I cant question your feelings... I can say that you dont marry someone just because you love them. Thats how 50% of marriages f*ck up (and I bet you 100% of them started out thinkin theyd be together forever...at least one of them did).
I assume you have a job, a house, a steady income and arent living or dependent on your parents. Im also going to assume that his apparent...incarceration will not make him a sit-in boyfriend. How long do you think you can love a man who's skill lay in the crevace of the couch you bought? Even if you have this all figured out;
Is your soul right? Are you a woman of God and is he a Man of God?
Because if you arent, then both of you will go into a marriage with unreasonable expectations. Research what your place is in a marriage that is acknowledged by the Highest and see what is expected of you as a wife and of him as a husband. At least youll have guidelines.
(and yall can hate me for this, but if she has no doubts then I havent shaken her spirit at all.) *leaves* :arrow:
I think that comment was REALLY looked over. Tres you are a 100% right on this 1.
Why are u getting married other then the fact that you love eachother? I guess this is the man you plan 2 be with forever and an eternity?
I would really say for you to think this WHOLE situation through. I mean are u even 21 yet? You haven't lived your life 2 the fullest yet. And Marriage is a everyday working together process.
Don't you think you should give it some time from him gettin home from boot camp? Obviously this person has a record ..so how easy do u think it is going to be for him to get a JOB unless you are going to be the bread winner..well then go for it.
Marriage is a act that i believe should be taken VERY seriously. Its a promise to GOD that you'll never leave this person no matter WHAT..and not saying that you have to be a woman of God..or him to be a man of God..but you need to have him apart of your life
Im sure if u listen God will tell you the best outcome for this situation you are in..but it seems 2 me that you are stuck on doing this..so.....
Congratz :wink:
