HAVE YOU BEEN IN LOVE BEFORE???

83 replies · 18344 views · Started by La · Jun 2004

I just thought about this topic from so many different convedrsations I have had with people...And the topic of love and relationships come up. And I will tell someone ( specifically guys ), that I have never been in love before and they find it shocking. Mainly because of 1) my age and 2) the fact that girls tend to fall in love easier than guys...so for me to be almost 20 and never been in love surprises people. What do yall think about girls falling in love easier than guys, and have you been in love before???

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~Q*Killa~ · Jun 2004

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I'm 20 and I can honestly say I've never been in love before. Sometimes I feel I'm not capeable of such complex feelings buuuuuut then maybe it's because of alla the bull I've come up against. At any rate, no I've never been in love. Don't really have much of a desire to be there either.

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· Jun 2004

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* $ MiLa $ * wrote:
What do yall think about girls falling in love easier than guys, and have you been in love before???

I think that fems do fall in love more than men do, i.e. me. I have been in so many relationships and every time I thought that I was so.......so deeply in love with the other person. Love is blind sometimes though and sometimes mistaken with infatuation. I look back now and can say that I have only truly been in love in the past with one man who was my high school sweet heart. Every other time that I thought that I was in love, I was just really infatuated with the guy. For that short time that we were together I was on cloud 9 and lovin the rush of being with them. Guys don't fall in love as much as women do though cause a lot of them see women as replacable. Like if you get tired of one, then there are many others to fall back on. Women almost never feel that way. They see their men as their one and only and the one that they were destined to be with forever and always.....well until they break up with the guy or vice versa. To answer your question fully, I have been in love with only two men out of like 10-12 significant others. They knew me.....the real me and were just better than the rest. I am still with one of the guys now, but were havin problems right now and just because we are in love now, doesn't mean that it was meant to last forever. I guess we'll see though. 8)

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