Fellas, do ya'll think this is cute?

Okay, i just want to know why guys try so hard to get a girl's attention and when they do it's like they just go stupid. some dudes try so hard to get that one girl, but when they do they don't treat her right. it's like they don't know what to do with their attention. i mean, is it cute to chase your dream girl, get her, and then just say forget it. i just don't understand...if u got the girl u want, why can't u treat her good, and pursue a relationship. it's like guys are small kids that are beg for a special toy for months and when they get it they're just don't wanna play with it. WHAT IS THIS? FELLAS HELLPPP!! i'm tired of wasting my time on guys that i THINK are gonna treat me right. i would greatly appreciate some feedback

^^^^^wrd...dat is sooo annoyin..but i was askin my guy friends bout that one day and dey basically told me that 1.sumtimes the chase is wat keeps dem interested and once dats gone so is dere interest ....or 2. sumtimes the chick they chasin turns into a diff person once dey make the transition from friend to gf..i dunno..dats wat i heard

^^^ tru tru but number one its more to it if the girl is "EASY" then their interest disapears my brothers talk about that all da time

maybe that's it...i guess from far away people make their own judgements, but when they get to know you, you might not be all that the guy wanted you to be. that **** . i get so sick of wasting my time. i'm going to start putting little to zero effort in on the guys i like, then i'm going to see what happens