I believe in the presumption of love after the first convo, especially if the first convo is over the phone or internet, it seems so special, and too good to be true, because it usually is, I learned along time ago, it is too easy to hide all your bad traits over the phone, traits that dont come out until you're face to face...besides half the time, one party is knee deep in the convo, and the other party is dozing off or looking at ****...it is a nice feeling to think you've found someone special, especially off this site, I mean you see the pretty face (pictures can be liars too) then you get to see this lovely elegant personality...and then you realize they live half a country away...lol...ahh well...
I did have an interesting and long convo last night with someone who I never really talked to, I mean we talked before, but...mostly "What up...how you doin....holla"...last night I actually got to know a little bit of her...and I told her I would convince her that I was her type in due time...unfortunately, the reality of it is, she will be in Maryland, and I will be in NC...so we'll most likely end up being just friends...hey, I didnt make a love connection last night, but I did meet somebody really cool...and I didnt expect that...
I never really believed in it until recently. I had an immediate reaction like WTF is this. Now this person got me thinking about him all the time, I never met anyone like him and definitly didn't think i would experience anything like it.