What can you do?

O_o i have never met a dude dumb enough to run up on a girl with those lines about makin a girl a wife and how she gonna be all over him.... been watchin too many videos and listenin to these idiots rap about their game to chicken heads...sad sad day. but dont lie to the brotha...just tell him straight up he approached you wrong and you aren't feeling him at the current time. That's my 2 cents.

If someone comes at you respectfully and you simply aren't interested, he deserves a respectful response, even if you really aren't interested. Saying that you're already involved with someone is usually enough. I'm assuming that people are coming at you disrespectfully, like the dude you described in the post, in which case, do what you gotta do. You don't necessarily have to call dude out in public, but let him know that you're not interested and additionally you don't appreciate the way he approached you. Please don't go with the fake numbers and all that because it's disrespectful and opens you both up for some embarassment, even if you feel that he deserves it. If you tell someone you're already involved or you simply aren't looking for someone right now, even the most pressed dude will appreciate your class and the opportunity for him to save face. Holla!

Neo you feel me. . . If you're straight up about it, even a **** will respect your honesty. . . If he's too hardcore, for that, he'd probably get turned off by your civility anyway. Most dudes are not going to make a scene if they approach you without their boys. And if they do approach you with their boys, the first thing you should say is "oh so you couldn't do it by yourself." You shouldn't have to make any excuses for who you choose to date. But I know the fake number thing pisses EVERYBODY off. And you might see the person again, so you're taking a big risk.