How much is too much?
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Started by unconditional
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Jan 2005
I don't get it, maybe someone can help me out. How much time is too much time to want from the one you are with? It seems like it is always never enough for any guy I'm with or I give them what they ask for and they still cheat
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Ummm, maybe you shouldnt give them what they want.They make look at that as a sign of weakness and just a reason to walk all over you.It's one thing to be a giving person but don't spread yourself thin.Relationships are give and take.
That is just something that yall have to discuss. No one wants to be smothered. Allow him some time alone and you the same. Relationships should be 50/50. Treating the other as they wish to be treated.
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Okay, I can say I have been in the same situation where I would make time for my friend but he would not make as much time for me. I got to the point that I just gave him the space that he wanted. You see sometimes we have to be careful because we can give to much and it is not returned. In this case you have to evaluate the relationship because the both of you all should put time and effort into it not just one person. If one person is putting more time and there is no logical reason than it is not worth all the trouble.
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Kinkee wrote:That is just something that yall have to discuss. No one wants to be smothered. Allow him some time alone and you the same. Relationships should be 50/50. Treating the other as they wish to be treated.
