Kappa's I really need yalls HELP

I sure most of you all are sick of kats posting messages about what fraternity they want to be in. I know the whole thing is to be low key and no one's to know your plans. I completely understand and respect that. I have done my research and believe that the Kappa’s best represents who I want to be. The true essence of a Kappa Man is “maturity” not meaning growth physically but growing mentally, and spiritually. I’m asking the Kappa members of HBCU-Central to just inform me why they became a Kappa man or even just inform me about what’s ahead. The reason I’m asking the members of HBCU is due to the fact that no one knows about my future plans, and I think it’s only fair for myself to get a viewpoint from a member who’s already involved.

Look at what the frats do on campus. The type of people they are and what the fraternities' purpose and goals are.