Don't Beat Your Kids..HAZE Them..
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Started by 1FocusedBruh
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May 2005
Ok..I'm in a debate with someone of the idea of hazing kids over beating them.
I'm a firm believer that beating your kids doesn't really send them a lesson. In which you have to continually beat your kids because they will continually act up. I know plenty of times I was beaten by my pops or moms and laugh because I was still wearing my Jordan's and playing my video games..
My pops got smart and stopped trying to lay a belt on me but lay a hand on my prized possessions. I went from rocking Jordans to ocking the shoes I mowed the yard in. Super Nintendo and t.v to NOTHING..My pops wouldnt even let me watch tv with them or even when his friends were around for a football game..He forced me to stay in my room..
Hmm..It's kind of like being pledged or in the the NPHC's word, "Hazed".
I will never beat my kids. I will make their lives a living HELL if they ever f*ck up..I'm sorry but pain only lasts a hour but the experience I would put you through would last forever..
My kids will know not to f*ck up..Believe me..lol
The person he got into the debate with was me, and I'll tell you now like I told you then. You're crazy and hope you never have kids.
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I think it all has to do with the kid. Some kids could get past not havin possesions but don't want to get the switch just like they can laugh at a beating but cry at losing their ps2. Just like rod had said in the other post he found alternatives to getting put on punishment. I think that would work good tho, but at the same time beating works too. I like the method of having a combination of two mixed in with lecturing. When their younger whoppins are gonna occur tho. If my kids are anything like me they will respond to that, that's why I think it all matters what kind of kid your dealin with.
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lol..I know someone thats a 3rd grade teacher and he has his students to, "Lock Up" and recite their times tables among other things..****
I swear I will never hit my kids. Making them wear Salvation Army clothes and taking their toys are for an extended period of time will keep them in check..Im telling ya
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I'm sure everybody got their ways, and if they work it's no dissin them but if yo kids grows up and is a jacked up person then you know you should of tweaked somethin.
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It's a matter of setting a norm and rewarding good behavior, while punishing bad behavior.
Haze is a strong word but you do have to control the climate of your household and ensure that your children understand the expectations and acceptable parameters of your household.
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I'm a firm believer in communicating with your children. When they mess up, it's the parents job to set them str8, but in a way they will understand. Hazing them is not the way to get your point across. It only shows how angry you are.
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1FocusedBruh wrote:Ok..I'm in a debate with someone of the idea of hazing kids over beating them. I'm a firm believer that beating your kids doesn't really send them a lesson. In which you have to continually beat your kids because they will continually act up. I know plenty of times I was beaten by my pops or moms and laugh because I was still wearing my Jordan's and playing my video games.. My pops got smart and stopped trying to lay a belt on me but lay a hand on my prized possessions. I went from rocking Jordans to ocking the shoes I mowed the yard in. Super Nintendo and t.v to NOTHING..My pops wouldnt even let me watch tv with them or even when his friends were around for a football game..He forced me to stay in my room.. Hmm..It's kind of like being pledged or in the the NPHC's word, "Hazed". I will never beat my kids. I will make their lives a living HELL if they ever f*ck up..I'm sorry but pain only lasts a hour but the experience I would put you through would last forever.. My kids will know not to f*ck up..Believe me..lol
