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Question for tha ladies mostly

Question for tha ladies mostly
Posted By: Wayne Foster on July 20, 2005


I see that a lot of females be talkin' about they want a Man to " make them feel good" but what I want to know is ladies, why is it that when you come across a good man you either give him the 3rd degree(brush him off) or don't know how to act what's good with that
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Erin Lett
Philander Smith College class of 2010
I think some females get caught up in the "i want/need a good man" hype. When truthfully, deep down, they don't want a good man, they want/need a "bad boy" or a so-called "thug" type of dude to really take care of them or "make them feel good". So when they actually come in contact with a "good man", they really don't know how to act or treat one, b/c its not what they're used to. And I say, "they", b/c I have a good man and I do appreciate him, so I don't consider myself to be in this particular situation, but I can relate!
Wednesday, July 20th 2005 at 6:06AM
swantasha stokes
South Carolina State University class of 2008
With some females they are tired of the same ol same ol and you never know when yall are serious or when yall just spitting that good game to get between them thighs, ya know. A man can speak that game and have a girl thinking that she in love the first date. After awhile you just be like whateva cause he gone do the same thing the rest of them n*gga did! Thats just some females not all at least the ones who have not been played before.
Wednesday, July 20th 2005 at 10:23AM
LaShonda Redd
Tuskegee University class of 2009
I think its just a fatal attraction type of thing. I mean good girls usually go for the bad boy and the good guys always go for the bad girls and in the end someone always gets hurt because someone is not satisfied in the relationship. Girls have gotten to the point were they have been with so many guys that have treated them wrong that they start to think all men are the same and i know that aint right but you have to understand where we are coming from. Girls are tired of being treated like dummies. The same for good guys they get tired of being treated like dummies and they turn bad and turn around and treat a girl like a dummy. Its a bad cycle that needs to end but men have to stick it out like the girls and hope they find what their looking for in whatever their preferrence may be.
Im out
Shonda
Wednesday, July 20th 2005 at 11:04AM
Kiahari Pringle
Clark Atlanta University class of 2009
There are not that many good guys out there so it is hard for us to accept one when he comes along. Its just the way things are

Wednesday, July 20th 2005 at 11:51AM
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