What is a MAN to do?
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Posted By: Ronel (JAPAN/BEAST) Brewer on October 20, 2005 What is a Man to DO (1 hits) I am 28 years old and in my opinion a very good catch. Not bad looking, in OK shape, financially stable, no kids, no nasty ex's, active in many social and civic organizations...and pretty exciting as far as the standards of life go. I found myself attracted to a woman that really was nothing like me. Although very beautiful, she has no college education (which is ok if you have something to balance that out) a 6 year old daughter (beautiful young lady) and lived at home with her parents. I found myself trying to give her my all and do what a real man should do for any woman that he is to become serious with. Flowers for reasons and no reasons. Giving my time to her and her daughter. Getting her car fixed picking her up from work and the whole nine. Just what ever I could do to help. To be anything that she was missing. In essence while I was being a good samaritan and a good man in general...she came to the realization that I was nothing like the men she was used to. I am assuming that meant disrespectful and uncaring men who had nothing going for themselves but some thug thizzle. In any case...I guess I am just writing to say that this is disheartening to know that you can do right by someone to only have them brush you off for basically being to good to believe. That wouldn't have been so bad...if she hadn't completely shut me off. As I was trying to build a friendship and she cut me off completely because in essence I am not her type? Guess she was not my type anyway...huh?!?!? If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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Ronel (JAPAN/BEAST) Brewer
From Norfolk, VA Elizabeth City State University class of 1999 Member Since July 2001 |
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Even if that is the case then why would she not want to be friends now? This is the type of behavior that makes good men turn bad. There is a difference between not having the heart and not having the common sense.
Friday, October 21st 2005 at 11:32AM |
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