virtuosity vrs. independence
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Posted By: t s on February 13, 2006 Im posting this b-log because i think there are a few things that we woman miss out on. Reading is something that we do the least. Reading fairytale stories and drama books are all fun but how many pple read the bible daily? If so then why do i know so many ignorant ladies act as if they dont have a clue.I just want to share some things with the women who think its all about them. Women that think they dont need no one telling them what to do whatsoever. 1st lets go back to adam and eve. we were created for man:) believe that. He created a Help Mate for adam and thats real look it up so you Strong women who dont Need a man, thats good and sweet cookies if you want to live that way but those that would like to get married someday listen carefully to a few things i have learned through reading. 1st you must understand that once you are married you are entering into a new rim of submission. To be married to a Godly man this may come very easy for you but you must absolutly submit to him. He is the head of the house. He want sex give em sex :) Please him!take care of your man....because there is always someone waiting to do it for you.Not every man is worthy of the submission. Some men arent even worthy of a courtship with anyone. Im speaking of Godly relationships.We women get so caught up in "Im independent ive been doing it like this all this time...."so on so on. If you even plan to be a good wife that attitude must go. You can be strong but your independence should never be overbearing to your husband. If your job is interfering with home then maybe you would need to consider alternative routes. Being virtuous is far more a challenge from me to you. I hear my friends say i need completeness i need a man!!. My opionion is a woman that look for completeness is a woman that will never find it. She must be complete before He arrives that i truely believe. Always remember God reveals us in speacial wrapping paper. He never releases an unfinished product so single ladies be patient and take care of #1 1st get your stuff tight and then maybe in due time God will bless you and me too. I would like to hear feedback from a guys view of women who think they dont need you. If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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THIS IS AN AWESOME BLOG. PLEASURE TO MAKE YOUR ACQUAINTANCE SIS. I CAN WRITE MUCH ON THIS ONE, BUT TO GIVE CREDIT WHERE DUE, I THINK I WILL SUBMIT AND JUST READ, LEARN AND LISTEN... KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK SIS. WILLIAM Tuesday, February 14th 2006 at 12:55PM |
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I must say that i agree with most of your points about some women now adays. We need to realize that its a give and take relationship. Some times when we step back and letthe man take the lead... He cant so its like im damned if i do damned if I dont. and some men dont know how to step up to the plate. So i just advise women to know exactly what you are looking for and to comprose not fully but to grow with your partner and build a lasting relationship.. i know im babaling but you get what I am sayin. Thanks~Tee
Tuesday, February 14th 2006 at 8:07PM |
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Re: virtuosity vrs. independence He cant take the lead? there will be no he cant....Remember we are speaking of a Godly relationship with a Godly man, not just an average joe. With that said. A man who cant take care of his home is not of God. Financially he will do what he need to to get the family by. If that means standing in the streets with a wishy washy or knocking door to door "lawn mowing" . He will provide. When you speak of taking lead the man should be making the decisions....he is wise if he consults with his wife but He is suppose to make all the decisions. in closing i want to say that your right about knowing what you want because God will give you the desires of your heart. Thursday, February 16th 2006 at 8:13PM |
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totally agree!
Thursday, April 27th 2006 at 8:24PM |
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