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Posted By: HOPE EVANS on June 12, 2006 People are destined to be in my live for a reason, season, or lifetime. As the bible states there is a time and season for everything. throught life everything that I have been through...has been a lesson learned. many times in my life I have had to question why some ppl are in my life. Even when I stop talking to them, did they fulfill their purpose? many times we meet people who often becomes our friend, boyfriend/girlfriend or an associate. First thing I do is pray that God will reveal himself in them. Whatever the outcome maybe that his will be done. many times I have been hurt. I know that wasn't their "assignment" in my life. At this point in my life I am realy examining myself. People may feel as though I am being distant. I am not. People must understand that before you can have a relationship with anyone. You must first have a relationship with GOD. That is the main reason most relationships go bad. It is unhealthy to be in an " unequally yoked" relationship. even though some friendships may not last forever. Somethings arent meant to last. Once again people are in my life for a season or a reason. Within the past few yrs people have walked in and out of my life. Some people end up coming back in my life. Maybe they haven't successfully completed their assignment. Others were in my life for a brief period of time. To me they were in my life for a reason. Whomever came up with the phrase".......it takes a lifetime to forget a person" does it really take that long?? It doesnt take that long to love someone. I think it takes that long to forget the memories. I understand sometimes I do not want to let a person go. i know that I have to move on. I cant sit around and hope for things to change. when I "grow apart" from a person sometimes it isnt intentional. I go through phase of just wanting to be by myself. Everygone goes through that. But I know everything has a process. Not only do I question the purpose of people in my life. I question my purpose for being in other people's life. Am I there for a reason, season, or a lifetime? Are you in my life for a season, reason, or a lifetime? If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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HOPE EVANS
From Fayetteville, NC Winston-Salem State University class of 2008 Member Since September 2003 |
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