FAMU MADE: Dreams Deferred, Dreams Realized: A Mother and Daughter’s Shared Journey at FAMU
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Posted By: Reginald Culpepper on December 12, 2025 Tamara Carpenter, 43, a dedicated mother and nursing student from Augusta, Georgia, has reignited her academic dreams alongside her daughter, Taciana Carpenter. Their shared journey at Florida A&M University (FAMU) is not just a story of higher education; it is a vibrant t estament to the power of determination, family support, and breaking barriers. Tamara Carpenter was a single parent who graduated high school while pregnant with Taciana. She faced numerous challenges on her path to academic success. After starting her educational journey at a community college and earning an associate nursing degree, she always felt a lingering desire for more. “I thought my time had passed,” Tamara Carpenter said. Yet, witnessing her daughter’s acceptance and journey at FAMU reignited a fire within her. “I missed out on the full college experience and since I was pregnant with Taciana during my senior year in high school, my then advisors told me not to apply to college,” she said. Still, she knew that her dream to be a nurse was not over yet. After more than 20 years as a surgical technologist and earning her associate degree as registered nurse, Tamara Carpenter enrolled in FAMU’s RN-to-BSN online program and began her courses in January 2025. Determined to make the most of an opportunity she thought had passed her by, she dove headfirst into her studies, often seeking assistance from Taciana, who had already navigated the university’s FAMU’s online learning platform. Their roles quickly reversed as daughter guided mother through the general challenges of college life, underscoring the unique dynamic of their shared experience. “My mom was calling me all the time, asking for help with her assignments,” Taciana shared, laughing at how the lines between parent and child sometimes blurred. “It’s beautiful to have that support system, especially when you’re away from home.” Taciana, 25, graduated Cum Laude with her psychology degree in August 2025 and now aspires to be a mental health counselor for veterans. This December, it will be her mother chance to turn her tassel.The experience strengthened their bond in unexpected ways. Both women turned the trials of academia into a nurturing ground for their relationship, creating memories that will last a lifetime. After all, both women understand the weight of balancing school with personal responsibilities—Tamara while raising her children, and Taciana while working as a pharmacy technician. “It brought us closer together,” Tamara Carpenter said. For Taciana, her mother’s pending graduation is proof that perseverance can span generations. “I can’t wait to celebrate my mom as she finally gets to walk across that stage and celebrate this achievement.” Now, Tamara Carpenter’s youngest daughter, Nylah is already expressing interest in following in her family’s footsteps at FAMU. Tamara Carpenter’s story serves as a reminder that education is a lifelong pursuit that cannot be limited by age. “Whether you’re a single parent or facing life’s challenges, don’t let your circumstances dictate your dreams. You are not your situation; keep pushing forward,” she encouraged. Taciana echoed her mother’s sentiment, urging fellow students to embrace their parent’s aspirations and consider the powerful dynamics of building a Rattler legacy. “If your mom isn’t in school, encourage her to go back. It’s an experience you both can cherish together. There’s a different level of support when you know someone is right there with you,” she advised. As graduation day approaches, the Carpenters stand as living proof that dreams deferred can be revived and realized even on the “Highest of Seven Hills.” If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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Reginald Culpepper
President, Fulfillment and Web Services, HBCUCONNECT Clark Atlanta University class of 1998 Member Since September 2000 |
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