Black Men
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Posted By: Amy Stevens on November 09, 2006 Are there any men out there these days that don't just want sex? Are there any successful black men that know what they want out of life and aren't looking for the next chick that will give it up easy? Are there any black men out there that don't already have kids and looking for someone else that don't have kids so that they can start a family together, instead of dealing with custody situations and drama? Are there any true black men out there that don't tell a whole lot of lies and play games? Good black men seem to very scarce these days, I just need to know if there are any still out there. If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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Amy Stevens
From aiken, SC South Carolina State University class of 2008 Member Since May 2005 |
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Re: Black Men There are professional brothers out there, but your chance sistah girl of finding one without any kids is slim-remember there are more Black men in prision than in a college classroom-that's 1 million Black XY in prision and less than that in college! To be honest you are on point about men just wanting s*x easy-hey I say if you are serious about your craft-what is that you want to do with your life and you can exhibit professionalism and motivation for your significant other-it shouldn't matter if they have kids or not-as long as you two are happy and he is trying to handle his business-brothers need sistahs who are encouraging, motivating and inspiring....a good person period is scarce, but you limit yourself by thinking that you can only have kids with him-do you know that there are so many sistahs who are single moms-who work hard every day, but are stigmatized by folks like you who say-they only want kids by them-meaning they would have to turn their backs on their children for a woman or vice versa-I would never do that! If there is true love then his kids are yours and vice versa! Sincerely, trying to school you-not rule you! Thursday, November 9th 2006 at 10:23AM |
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I am not hail bent on finding a man that don't have kids already but I would love for that to be true when I do find someone. I also do not look down upon someone if they have kids already. I am a very caring, easygoing person and I am willing to compromise. I am wondering if there are black men out there that would consider themselves good black men, that know what they want and are ready to commit. Black men that are willing to work together and make a relationship the best that it can be and when your relationship is not always at its best willing to do what it takes to make it instead of going out and trying to find grass that is greener.
Thursday, November 9th 2006 at 10:44AM |
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I feel u, I'm looking for some of the good ones too. But I believe that there still are some decent men out there; I still have faith. I believe that when God is ready for me to be in a relationship, he will send me the right guy. I just hope that I realize it when I meet him.
Thursday, November 9th 2006 at 2:40PM |
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They are out there, but dont look at the parties and clubs, but at your church and libraries the ones trying to make it in life will be the ones doing something with there lives.
Thursday, November 9th 2006 at 5:14PM |
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