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What's Love?

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Posted By: Elizabeth Pollard on December 09, 2006


Love is not sex, love is choosing to heal the past hurts & pain of your mate. Depending on their past, you may have a lot of work to do. And love is helping your mate pursue their interests and talents. Notice, that love is all about the other person. When its balanced, you will make sure they get what they need and they will make sure you get what you need. If either person fails, then each person becomes selfish to meet their own needs and then love fails.
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Joyce Brayboy
Media relations specialist at U.S. Army Research Laboratory
Wow, I don't know too much about this topic, but it sounds difficult and not like fun. What's the good part? What can YOU expect from the deal?
Saturday, December 9th 2006 at 1:14PM
Joyce Brayboy
Media relations specialist at U.S. Army Research Laboratory
What's the difference between being in love and just loving people?
Saturday, December 9th 2006 at 1:17PM
I think the good part about being in love is see that you and your partners needs and wants are both getting met and that there's an understanding that they are there for each other until the end. Being in love all your needs are being fulfilled being mind, body and soul... Having someone who complements you in everyway.There's a bond there that no one can break.
Sunday, December 10th 2006 at 2:17AM
Joyce Brayboy
Media relations specialist at U.S. Army Research Laboratory
OK if it really work that way, that sounds appealing. Folks scare me, putting up with crazy stuff talking about in love.... When you don't know any better you think, "I sure don't want to catch what they have!"
Sunday, December 10th 2006 at 11:04PM
Shenicka McCollum
North Carolina A&T State University class of 2011
Good post. I like the way you define LOVE. My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months and all of those characteristics are falling into place. It took some time for those things to come, but Elizabeth your definition is very pain & simple. Alot of people think of different things when they define LOVE or LUST!
Wednesday, December 13th 2006 at 8:38AM
WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III
Florida A&M University class of 1995
Deep, Sis, Love this write and had to give credit where due. Keep up the great work passing on the knowledge!
Friday, December 15th 2006 at 1:00PM
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