Is it too late
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Posted By: Leandra Hudson on May 07, 2007 I think I may have made the biggest mistake of my life. I actually told somebody I would marry them. I mean what was I thinking? But it is all for the better being he is going to be a father, but I'm scared. I'm growing up way too fast and I want to slow down. This is crazy! Eleven weeks pregnant and freshly engaged. It's hard because I can't talk to my mom like i used to because she's not around anymore and I don't want to get started on my dad. I'm just so confused. I want to break the engagement off and livemy life, but that's hard to do with a baby growing inside your uterus and all. Somebody help me make a decision or give some advice. If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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Leandra Hudson
From Rockford, IL Northern Illinois Univ class of 2012 Member Since February 2007 |
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Sweetheart I think you should forget about the baby I know it's hard but that's what you have to do because you can't love and marry someone just because your carrying his child. Just listen to your heart if your heart tells you to marry this man do it if it's telling it's a mistake let it go. Because if you marry this man and your not in love with him your going to end up bitter. So really all you can do is listen to your heart.
Thursday, May 10th 2007 at 8:36AM |
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PLEASE don't have an abortion. I know that you want everybody's advice but please take this one into condiseration. If God didn't want you to have this baby he wouldn't have giving it to you. He don't lay nothing on you that you can't bare. Read the Bivle girl. I am 17 with a lil boy, engaged but not to my baby's daddy, and probably pregnant again. And me and my mom definetly don't get along, but I'm still staying with her. I only have another year though. And my da is in Iraq. And my baby was a gift from God and i say all of that to say this" don't have an abortion, and if you don't want to marry and your baby daddy stop doing for you and your baby; there's someone out there for you.
Thursday, May 10th 2007 at 8:45AM |
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Just tell him how you feel. He can't get mad about that. Your not telling him that you won't marry him in the future your just telling him that you don't want to do it right now. Im not trying to convince you to do anything but if you truly can't handle having a baby then maybe you should get an abortion. If abortion is not an option then you just have to face all things head on as they come. This includes telliing him you are not ready to be married yet. Hope all else is going well.
Tuesday, May 15th 2007 at 9:04PM |
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