Why are We Doing This to Our Children?
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Posted By: Dr. S. Maxwell Hines on October 26, 2008 The phenomena of how we select names for our children just amazes me. Why would you give children names that set up negative expectations for them before they even open their mouths? A school teacher friend sent this to me. This is a childʼs name! 'Le - a' How would you pronounce this as a child's name??? Leah?? NO Lee - A?? NOPE Lay - a?? NO Lei?? Guess Again. Are you resorting to tongue clicks yet? It's pronounced 'Ledasha ' oh yes...you read it right. The dash is not silent. This child attends a school in Livingston Parish. (Louisiana) Her mother is irate because everyone is getting her name wrong. SO, if you see something come across your desk like this please remember to pronounce the dash. When the mother was asked about the pronunciation of the name, she said 'the dash don't be silent.' Any comments? If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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...It's pronounced 'Ledasha ' oh yes...you read it right. The dash is not silent... Dr. Hines I am bawling. What kind of nonsense is that? If you think this bad Dr. HInes what about naming your child Clitoria? http://www.bnvillage.co.uk/village-square/... Sunday, October 26th 2008 at 11:26PM |
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Jen, Although I agree with the sentiment in many ways, the article that you published is bogus. http://www.snopes.com/humor/iftrue/blackna... Sunday, October 26th 2008 at 11:33PM |
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Even the HollyWood celebs are right up there. Who names their kid Apple? It really should be a crime.
Sunday, October 26th 2008 at 11:37PM |
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Again, I agree with you, Jen, lol.
Monday, October 27th 2008 at 12:03AM |
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Dee, Kimberly makes a good point. When celebrities name their children these names, it probably won't impinge on their future but will Clitoria (as Jen said) be able to work in corporate America, LOL?
Monday, October 27th 2008 at 12:47PM |
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I used to think that these names were the purview of teen mothers but Sharon set me straight on that one, lol.
Monday, October 27th 2008 at 12:49PM |
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I can't even find this funny anymore, Renee. I find it maddening. Everyone has the right to be ignorant, but to heap that ignorance onto your own child annoys me to no end!
Monday, October 27th 2008 at 9:39PM |
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I hear ya. I met a girl who said she named her children white names so they could get jobs. She was a welfare mother of now 6. I was called Belle until I changed my name to Johanna which is my middle name. I agree that hopefully the child will be intelligent enough to change their name when they are old enough.
Tuesday, October 28th 2008 at 12:23PM |
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lol i find that hard to believe and although i'm laughing it's really sad and distarbing to think what the hell was going on in that mothers head Tuesday, October 28th 2008 at 3:37PM |
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I think this name beats all the others. I was listening a while back to a local radio station here in the NYC area and a day care teacher said African Americans were not the only ones with these outlandish names, but the one name that struck with me to this day was Abcde {pronounced Ab cee dee}. I don't know this is a boy or girl. This is clearly what you would call disturbing.
Thursday, October 30th 2008 at 5:30PM |
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Jacqueline, you sound like a person too young to have children or one who has named a child a name such as the ones we've discussed here. Which is it?
Sunday, November 2nd 2008 at 3:22PM |
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